"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Finding something to highten your intrest level?..

Demonicale

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Ok what i'm asking is for some examples of something i could take up as in an activity or hobbie that would impress/make me more intresting to people in general?.

Recently i've come to the conclusion that whenever i get intrest shown in me i kind of obsess over it.So i thought to myself that if i had a really good hobbie or intrest then i would'nt be such a loser.

And the fact that i'm bored with my life at the moment.

I can rejoin my local gym, that's an option...

just wondered what you guy's do to show you have some kind of intresting life?.

Thanks
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Scars

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Work out.
Guitar/music.
Writing.
Sports.
Career.
Drawing/art.

Those are some basics. I would try exploring different things, try and find something you're already naturally good at, something you enjoy, and just practice the hell out of it until you're the ****ing Bruce Lee of it.
 

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Find something you are truly passionate about. Something that can captivate all your interest and fill you with energy. The energy and interest you show towards a hobby is mirrored in those around you.

I recommend a sport (Maybe something you did as a kid but you gave up)
 

Demonicale

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Thanks for the replies, it's really helpful and does give me the confidence to go through with it.

First thing monday morning i've decided to rejoin the gym i use to belong to..

Now just have to think of a few more things, i always think that a persons intrests and hobbies define you as a person...and i have none at the moment really apart from the pc....so you see why i want to act.
 
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