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Finding out if she still has a boyfriend

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I met a girl in May through some friends. She said she had a boyfriend when I asked her out and I gave her my standard response "let me know when you break up".

I ran into her a few times since then and she always gave good body language. I saw her again last week and this time she seemed to amp up the flirting. Holding EC, asking friends about me, some teasing, and she texted me last week but I cut the convo short.

General consensus is to never ask directly if there's a boyfriend. I usually assume there isn't one with a chick if she's flirting with me, and I just ask her out. If she has one, that's when she usually mentions it.

I don't see the big deal in me asking her directly if they are still dating. She already knows I'm interested since I asked her out a few months ago.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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You don't see the big deal because there is no big deal, ask her whatever you want to ask her.
 
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