"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Finding out if she still has a boyfriend

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I met a girl in May through some friends. She said she had a boyfriend when I asked her out and I gave her my standard response "let me know when you break up".

I ran into her a few times since then and she always gave good body language. I saw her again last week and this time she seemed to amp up the flirting. Holding EC, asking friends about me, some teasing, and she texted me last week but I cut the convo short.

General consensus is to never ask directly if there's a boyfriend. I usually assume there isn't one with a chick if she's flirting with me, and I just ask her out. If she has one, that's when she usually mentions it.

I don't see the big deal in me asking her directly if they are still dating. She already knows I'm interested since I asked her out a few months ago.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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You don't see the big deal because there is no big deal, ask her whatever you want to ask her.
 
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