"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Finding out a chicks name

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omkara

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Ok yeah I know I'm going to get flamed for starting a thread asking ridiculous questions. haha Is this some kind of a dominance game with chicks? Usually in polite society, people tell you their name as a signature in a letter or formal introduction. However most of the chicks I write to on the internet don't give their name right away, or at all. So when I'm proceeding from email to text/phone I kind of need to know their name. But yet, I feel like I'm giving up the frame of dominance by asking their name. It's just an awkward question to ask. Has anyone else come across this situation and how do you handle it?

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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This is in the context of online dating sites like plentyoffish?
 
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You're not giving up any frame or dominance by asking for a name. Christ.

"By the way, you never told me your name. Should I make one up for you?"
 
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I know, you're right man. I way overthink things.

Yes it is in the context of online dating sites like OKC or POF.
 
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