Finding out a chicks name

omkara

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Ok yeah I know I'm going to get flamed for starting a thread asking ridiculous questions. haha Is this some kind of a dominance game with chicks? Usually in polite society, people tell you their name as a signature in a letter or formal introduction. However most of the chicks I write to on the internet don't give their name right away, or at all. So when I'm proceeding from email to text/phone I kind of need to know their name. But yet, I feel like I'm giving up the frame of dominance by asking their name. It's just an awkward question to ask. Has anyone else come across this situation and how do you handle it?

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arghx7

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This is in the context of online dating sites like plentyoffish?
 

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You're not giving up any frame or dominance by asking for a name. Christ.

"By the way, you never told me your name. Should I make one up for you?"
 

omkara

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I know, you're right man. I way overthink things.

Yes it is in the context of online dating sites like OKC or POF.
 
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