"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Finding out a chicks name

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omkara

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Ok yeah I know I'm going to get flamed for starting a thread asking ridiculous questions. haha Is this some kind of a dominance game with chicks? Usually in polite society, people tell you their name as a signature in a letter or formal introduction. However most of the chicks I write to on the internet don't give their name right away, or at all. So when I'm proceeding from email to text/phone I kind of need to know their name. But yet, I feel like I'm giving up the frame of dominance by asking their name. It's just an awkward question to ask. Has anyone else come across this situation and how do you handle it?

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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This is in the context of online dating sites like plentyoffish?
 
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You're not giving up any frame or dominance by asking for a name. Christ.

"By the way, you never told me your name. Should I make one up for you?"
 
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I know, you're right man. I way overthink things.

Yes it is in the context of online dating sites like OKC or POF.
 
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