"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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finding a time to approach

zubs

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So a couple months back i start to notice that this tall blond chick is always smiling/eye contact whenever i walk by. It takes me a while to realize shes smiling at me cause she is HOT.

I danced with her for a couple of songs at a formal and she seemed pretty into me, just another dude asked her to dance before i escalated. I didnt see her the rest of the night though so i didnt get to.

Now i still see her every now and then, but she seems to be losing interest. The only place i could talk to her is passing time or in line at lunch. Ive made it my goal to approach her next week, cause i know nothings ever gonna happen if i dont. i still dont even know her name.

How do i approach her in lunch or passing time?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Passing by her after eye contact

"You need to stop looking at me or I'll have to start charging" (with a big grin)
Follow up with "So how's that for a pick-up line?"
Then close with "No but seriously, give me your number so we can hang out [today,tomorrow,friday,this weekend]."
C+F and you aren't going to ask for her number, you're telling her to give it to you. :)
 

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When you see her you could say something like "hey thanks a lot my toes still hurt from you stompin on my feet all night at the dance" or something like that. You get the idea
 

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faiNt` said:
Passing by her after eye contact

"You need to stop looking at me or I'll have to start charging" (with a big grin)
Follow up with "So how's that for a pick-up line?"
Then close with "No but seriously, give me your number so we can hang out [today,tomorrow,friday,this weekend]."
C+F and you aren't going to ask for her number, you're telling her to give it to you. :)

id try that, but do lines work in high school?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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faiNt`

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Yeah^^ but the point is you have to be joking about the pick-up line part, because if you are serious she is going to laugh in your face xD
 
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