Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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zubs

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So a couple months back i start to notice that this tall blond chick is always smiling/eye contact whenever i walk by. It takes me a while to realize shes smiling at me cause she is HOT.

I danced with her for a couple of songs at a formal and she seemed pretty into me, just another dude asked her to dance before i escalated. I didnt see her the rest of the night though so i didnt get to.

Now i still see her every now and then, but she seems to be losing interest. The only place i could talk to her is passing time or in line at lunch. Ive made it my goal to approach her next week, cause i know nothings ever gonna happen if i dont. i still dont even know her name.

How do i approach her in lunch or passing time?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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faiNt`

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Passing by her after eye contact

"You need to stop looking at me or I'll have to start charging" (with a big grin)
Follow up with "So how's that for a pick-up line?"
Then close with "No but seriously, give me your number so we can hang out [today,tomorrow,friday,this weekend]."
C+F and you aren't going to ask for her number, you're telling her to give it to you. :)
 

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When you see her you could say something like "hey thanks a lot my toes still hurt from you stompin on my feet all night at the dance" or something like that. You get the idea
 

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faiNt` said:
Passing by her after eye contact

"You need to stop looking at me or I'll have to start charging" (with a big grin)
Follow up with "So how's that for a pick-up line?"
Then close with "No but seriously, give me your number so we can hang out [today,tomorrow,friday,this weekend]."
C+F and you aren't going to ask for her number, you're telling her to give it to you. :)

id try that, but do lines work in high school?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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faiNt`

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Yeah^^ but the point is you have to be joking about the pick-up line part, because if you are serious she is going to laugh in your face xD
 
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