"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Finally signed up after lurking for about a year... needs help

Rambofan

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Well here is a brief story of me first. I'm a Junior in HS, about 6"3 190 pounds and haven't had a girlfriend yet. For a while I was not interested in dating till about the 8th grade but I always get scared. Right now I am not really desperate but I'm just trying to get a girl finally, before the Senior year at least.

There has been a few girls I've had interest in this past month. One girl in my English class, I always catch her staring, I smiled once but her face didn't budge. I don't know if she has no interest or thinks I'm hot... Another one, I talk to her alot, she always says hi to me when she sees me, I think she is pretty hot also.

I need some tips SS, what are some tips I could use?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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jeffthechef

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This is the answer you'll get from most people, and a lot of other people who are too lazy to even respond with this answer...

Read the DJ Bible...The truth is, the answer is there already, HS bible might be a little more appropriate at this time.

The thing is, every new person doesn't want to believe what they read and are expecting some never-fail advice, but there isn't any.

Read the bible, learn all you can from it. Then, gain experience. You'll learn more by asking girls out, getting numbers, getting rejected, approaching, interacting...than you will just reading.

Lots of guys who are good with girls at your highschool...are simply apporaching and interacting with more girls than most guys...They gradually pick up on what works, how to vibe with people = SOCIAL SKILLS.

It's not hard. Read the djbible/hs bible, then start doing. And HAVE FUN :rock: :yes: :woo: :D
 

eaglez1177

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Rambofan said:
nevermind
Lol dude the situation your in is literally the same exact situation like 75% of the guys in this forum are in. All the same questions are asked about this, and they all receive the same answers.

I'll be straight and to the point. Grow a pair of fvcking nuts, talk to the girl, and tell her you wanna hang out.
 

Rambofan

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eaglez1177 said:
Lol dude the situation your in is literally the same exact situation like 75% of the guys in this forum are in. All the same questions are asked about this, and they all receive the same answers.

I'll be straight and to the point. Grow a pair of fvcking nuts, talk to the girl, and tell her you wanna hang out.
i think you misunderstood me saying nevermind.. I was asking where the bible and found it then said NM
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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