"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Finally signed up after lurking for about a year... needs help

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Well here is a brief story of me first. I'm a Junior in HS, about 6"3 190 pounds and haven't had a girlfriend yet. For a while I was not interested in dating till about the 8th grade but I always get scared. Right now I am not really desperate but I'm just trying to get a girl finally, before the Senior year at least.

There has been a few girls I've had interest in this past month. One girl in my English class, I always catch her staring, I smiled once but her face didn't budge. I don't know if she has no interest or thinks I'm hot... Another one, I talk to her alot, she always says hi to me when she sees me, I think she is pretty hot also.

I need some tips SS, what are some tips I could use?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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jeffthechef

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This is the answer you'll get from most people, and a lot of other people who are too lazy to even respond with this answer...

Read the DJ Bible...The truth is, the answer is there already, HS bible might be a little more appropriate at this time.

The thing is, every new person doesn't want to believe what they read and are expecting some never-fail advice, but there isn't any.

Read the bible, learn all you can from it. Then, gain experience. You'll learn more by asking girls out, getting numbers, getting rejected, approaching, interacting...than you will just reading.

Lots of guys who are good with girls at your highschool...are simply apporaching and interacting with more girls than most guys...They gradually pick up on what works, how to vibe with people = SOCIAL SKILLS.

It's not hard. Read the djbible/hs bible, then start doing. And HAVE FUN :rock: :yes: :woo: :D
 
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Rambofan said:
nevermind
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Lol dude the situation your in is literally the same exact situation like 75% of the guys in this forum are in. All the same questions are asked about this, and they all receive the same answers.

I'll be straight and to the point. Grow a pair of fvcking nuts, talk to the girl, and tell her you wanna hang out.
 
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eaglez1177 said:
Lol dude the situation your in is literally the same exact situation like 75% of the guys in this forum are in. All the same questions are asked about this, and they all receive the same answers.

I'll be straight and to the point. Grow a pair of fvcking nuts, talk to the girl, and tell her you wanna hang out.
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i think you misunderstood me saying nevermind.. I was asking where the bible and found it then said NM
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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