"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Finally signed up after lurking for about a year... needs help

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Well here is a brief story of me first. I'm a Junior in HS, about 6"3 190 pounds and haven't had a girlfriend yet. For a while I was not interested in dating till about the 8th grade but I always get scared. Right now I am not really desperate but I'm just trying to get a girl finally, before the Senior year at least.

There has been a few girls I've had interest in this past month. One girl in my English class, I always catch her staring, I smiled once but her face didn't budge. I don't know if she has no interest or thinks I'm hot... Another one, I talk to her alot, she always says hi to me when she sees me, I think she is pretty hot also.

I need some tips SS, what are some tips I could use?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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This is the answer you'll get from most people, and a lot of other people who are too lazy to even respond with this answer...

Read the DJ Bible...The truth is, the answer is there already, HS bible might be a little more appropriate at this time.

The thing is, every new person doesn't want to believe what they read and are expecting some never-fail advice, but there isn't any.

Read the bible, learn all you can from it. Then, gain experience. You'll learn more by asking girls out, getting numbers, getting rejected, approaching, interacting...than you will just reading.

Lots of guys who are good with girls at your highschool...are simply apporaching and interacting with more girls than most guys...They gradually pick up on what works, how to vibe with people = SOCIAL SKILLS.

It's not hard. Read the djbible/hs bible, then start doing. And HAVE FUN :rock: :yes: :woo: :D
 
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Rambofan said:
nevermind
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Lol dude the situation your in is literally the same exact situation like 75% of the guys in this forum are in. All the same questions are asked about this, and they all receive the same answers.

I'll be straight and to the point. Grow a pair of fvcking nuts, talk to the girl, and tell her you wanna hang out.
 
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eaglez1177 said:
Lol dude the situation your in is literally the same exact situation like 75% of the guys in this forum are in. All the same questions are asked about this, and they all receive the same answers.

I'll be straight and to the point. Grow a pair of fvcking nuts, talk to the girl, and tell her you wanna hang out.
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i think you misunderstood me saying nevermind.. I was asking where the bible and found it then said NM
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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