Finally made it up to the unit I rented in another state.I swear its all 7-10 women walking around.Did a solid week of meeting girls.Whats even better is that there seems to be more women then men.I'll post a field report later
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Originally posted by hithard
Finally made it up to the unit I rented in another state.I swear its all 7-10 women walking around.Did a solid week of meeting girls.Whats even better is that there seems to be more women then men.I'll post a field report later
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Male to female ratio is SOOOO important. If there are 7-10 males for each female, the biatches are having a fugging smorgasbord. They can be PICKY as hell, use men like toilet paper, and blow guys off no problem. For the loss of one is the gain of 9 others to take his place. And it makes the dating scene HELL for even the best DJ. All he has to do is leave for the toilet, and there are three creeps sending her drinks, and lighting her cigarettes. Her cell rings off the hook, and she is never at a loss for male companionship. A man is as expendible as a toothpick.Originally posted by hithard
Finally made it up to the unit I rented in another state.I swear its all 7-10 women walking around.Did a solid week of meeting girls.Whats even better is that there seems to be more women then men.I'll post a field report later