Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

Read more...

finally moved to booty town

hithard

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 23, 2005
Messages
606
Reaction score
83
Location
Australia
Finally made it up to the unit I rented in another state.I swear its all 7-10 women walking around.Did a solid week of meeting girls.Whats even better is that there seems to be more women then men.I'll post a field report later
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

Read more...

bobbob

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Aug 18, 2004
Messages
261
Reaction score
1
Originally posted by hithard
Finally made it up to the unit I rented in another state.I swear its all 7-10 women walking around.Did a solid week of meeting girls.Whats even better is that there seems to be more women then men.I'll post a field report later

What long lost paradise is this you speak of?
 

cinephile

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Jun 24, 2004
Messages
225
Reaction score
0
Age
59
Location
Texas
Yes, please provide direction to "Booty Town". I think I would like to make a visit.
 

bossdog

Don Juan
Joined
Sep 26, 2004
Messages
134
Reaction score
1
Location
Houston
take pictures and post those instead. church
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

hithard

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 23, 2005
Messages
606
Reaction score
83
Location
Australia
Sorry for being so slack guys will get a report up soon, and some pics of the babes (good idea bossdog)so long as i dont get caught out.Its always hot up here so I think thats why all the women keep themselves fit and attractive as they have to wear less clothes or suffer the heat.Im not going to name the town I dont want to pinpoint my position as all this don juan and game bull$hit has been hitting the local tv and cleo mags Ill just say its in QLD Australia.Been a bit busy lately but will get back to you all.
 

JackPrescott

Banned
Joined
Apr 19, 2005
Messages
860
Reaction score
7
Now heres an interesting post. I think male to female ratio is SOO important when it comes to the opposite sex. In this ridiculous one horse town I live in now, the males outnumber the females on a ratio of about 6 to one. That means if a woman is sexually attractive, I have to automatically deal with 5 bozos hitting on her, and wanting to spend $$$ and time on her, trying to get into her panties. A one to one ratio would be awe inspiring. It would mean a HUGE change of attitude on the parts of the ladies. They would go from arrogant, to realistic. It would be them in competition!

Some friends of mine from work, are talking about a place like this, where the weather is always beautiful, and the ladies are in great shape, as they need to wear little every day, where the attitude is more lax, and the social scene is like something out of a dream. This place sounds like somewhere I need to be, as here in "Anchorage", I am not meeting any women of signifigance, either nun-like virgins, or skanks, who change men like underwear. There seems to be no "normal" women left here. So it might be time to go fishing where the fish are, so to speak. I cannot do it for a bit, I have some loose ends to tie up, in order to make a fresh start, but there, other than those insignifigant loose ends, is nothing (kids, wife, ect) holding me back. I plan on making a trip there in 2006, to see it for myself.
 

JackPrescott

Banned
Joined
Apr 19, 2005
Messages
860
Reaction score
7
Originally posted by hithard
Finally made it up to the unit I rented in another state.I swear its all 7-10 women walking around.Did a solid week of meeting girls.Whats even better is that there seems to be more women then men.I'll post a field report later
Male to female ratio is SOOOO important. If there are 7-10 males for each female, the biatches are having a fugging smorgasbord. They can be PICKY as hell, use men like toilet paper, and blow guys off no problem. For the loss of one is the gain of 9 others to take his place. And it makes the dating scene HELL for even the best DJ. All he has to do is leave for the toilet, and there are three creeps sending her drinks, and lighting her cigarettes. Her cell rings off the hook, and she is never at a loss for male companionship. A man is as expendible as a toothpick.

NOW lets reverse the situation. 7-10 females to one male. All of a sudden WE become the commodity, and Sweet Jesus, Dear Rockefeller, the ladies are fighting for our attention, and the competition is CATTY as hell, and can you imagine a situation where there are 2-3 ladies pissed off at each other because they all want you as a steady boyfriend, and you sit there, like Sultan Hamid, stroking your goatee, figuring out which one you want to f**k the most?

Even a 1 to 1 ratio is sort of like this. I remember a comic book when I was a kid about a sailor, who landed up shipwrecked, on an Island full of nearly naked Playmates, (Female Warriors) and the two who found him, actually had a battle over the mouth of a volcano, to see who got to keep him for herself. If this happened modern day, it would be an Isle of Lesbians who killed the man on sight.
 
Top