Finally made it up to the unit I rented in another state.I swear its all 7-10 women walking around.Did a solid week of meeting girls.Whats even better is that there seems to be more women then men.I'll post a field report later
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Originally posted by hithard
Finally made it up to the unit I rented in another state.I swear its all 7-10 women walking around.Did a solid week of meeting girls.Whats even better is that there seems to be more women then men.I'll post a field report later
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Male to female ratio is SOOOO important. If there are 7-10 males for each female, the biatches are having a fugging smorgasbord. They can be PICKY as hell, use men like toilet paper, and blow guys off no problem. For the loss of one is the gain of 9 others to take his place. And it makes the dating scene HELL for even the best DJ. All he has to do is leave for the toilet, and there are three creeps sending her drinks, and lighting her cigarettes. Her cell rings off the hook, and she is never at a loss for male companionship. A man is as expendible as a toothpick.Originally posted by hithard
Finally made it up to the unit I rented in another state.I swear its all 7-10 women walking around.Did a solid week of meeting girls.Whats even better is that there seems to be more women then men.I'll post a field report later