“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Finally lost my virginity.

SamTheHobit

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Any way so I finally decided to give a seemingly worthwhile girl my virginity last night.

Been seeing her for about 3 and a half months and shes 18.

My thoughts - Well I promised myself I would only lose my virginity to another virgin, she wasn't a virgin which kinda sucked, but I guess life isn't perfect. Feeling pretty bad today, it could be the alcohol that's put me under the weather. The experience was interesting although I couldn't get it up (probably the alcohol) but after a few more tries I finally got it in.

I don't know where things will go with this girl, she's a really cool chick although she's incredibly selfish. As always I try to keep myself grounded and realize no situation is permanent.

I wish I had some good friends to confide this to but they are all pretty selfish to.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Good for you. At least you have an online community to confide to.
 

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Congrats and you have many more to look forward to!
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Lozboss

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Any way so I finally decided to give a seemingly worthwhile girl my virginity last night.

, she's a really cool chick although she's incredibly selfish.
I wish I had some good friends to confide this to but they are all pretty selfish to.
Good for you mate- try to keep sober-ish if it's affecting your hardon.

Red RED FLAG- this IS NOT GF Material. DO NOT date this chick beyond a FWB.

Blue: You need new friends- join a sports team, even if you suck at it. Expand your social circles. Women will come with that.
 

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Good work mate. Whatever people tell you, everyone's first time is usually a bit of a fail. It's probably been an issue for you for years, but you can leave that behind now. Look at it as an opening of the flood gates rather than being a source of new issues or insecurities. May be have this girl to practice your skills, so to speak. At your age, it probably won't be happily ever after anyway.
 

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Any way so I finally decided to give a seemingly worthwhile girl my virginity last night.

Been seeing her for about 3 and a half months and shes 18.

My thoughts - Well I promised myself I would only lose my virginity to another virgin, she wasn't a virgin which kinda sucked, but I guess life isn't perfect. Feeling pretty bad today, it could be the alcohol that's put me under the weather. The experience was interesting although I couldn't get it up (probably the alcohol) but after a few more tries I finally got it in.

I don't know where things will go with this girl, she's a really cool chick although she's incredibly selfish. As always I try to keep myself grounded and realize no situation is permanent.

I wish I had some good friends to confide this to but they are all pretty selfish to.
makes me realize when i lose mine it wont be as big of a deal as i thought. at least it'll be over with. i'm happy for this dude.

honestly, unless you're tim tebow, i think male virginity is a problem. its ok for a while but the older you get the more pressure inflicted upon the individual. i just started college and im dorming next year so it'll happen soon enough. whatever. not doing much execpt the gym, dieting, and school work.

sorry OP, not trying to take over your thread... anyways, congrats!
 

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Congratulations, Sam. A little monkey off the back.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Thanks guys. Appreciate it.
 
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