"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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finally got off my board trolling ass.

Best friends? NAY

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Finally got off my ass off the boards and got a number today.

I and a friend and his g/f went to go get good at Chilies. (If you don’t know what this place is…no big loss. The girl whose job it is to find us a seat and sit us was a hb8. I didn’t take the first opportunity then and my friend told me to go pick her up. So next time she walks by I ask her how old she is, (turns out to be my age) I start up some small talk about her work and **** then she has to go. My friend and his g/f go that was lame, but I’m going to get her number by the time we leave.

We get the check and start leave and I say I have to go to the bathroom, they both walk out, and I walk up to the hostess and introduce my self (which I didn’t do the first time we talked.) then go straight out and ask for the number… She says something about having a b/f I so lay out the “I didn’t ask for his number”. She shoots a smile at me and start scrambling around for something to write with. She just grabbed a pencil and turns around seeing me holding a pen and a little pad of paper (always care these items around with you). She writes it down, and I leave. On the way to my friends car I fold up her number and as I get into the car I toss it at him ( They didn’t think I could do it).

The most interesting thing was I really wasn’t nervous at all. In act if was very very easy, guess all the board trolling had some effect.:D
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Congrats, good to show up friends AND to show that the forum is helping you. Just remember to act this way all the time!
 

LikRetsam

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ahahhahahahah I love it!
 

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Good, but if you dont want the number, why get it (although good to prove to urself). Do you have to prove anythhing to your friends.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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