"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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finally got off my board trolling ass.

Best friends? NAY

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Finally got off my ass off the boards and got a number today.

I and a friend and his g/f went to go get good at Chilies. (If you don’t know what this place is…no big loss. The girl whose job it is to find us a seat and sit us was a hb8. I didn’t take the first opportunity then and my friend told me to go pick her up. So next time she walks by I ask her how old she is, (turns out to be my age) I start up some small talk about her work and **** then she has to go. My friend and his g/f go that was lame, but I’m going to get her number by the time we leave.

We get the check and start leave and I say I have to go to the bathroom, they both walk out, and I walk up to the hostess and introduce my self (which I didn’t do the first time we talked.) then go straight out and ask for the number… She says something about having a b/f I so lay out the “I didn’t ask for his number”. She shoots a smile at me and start scrambling around for something to write with. She just grabbed a pencil and turns around seeing me holding a pen and a little pad of paper (always care these items around with you). She writes it down, and I leave. On the way to my friends car I fold up her number and as I get into the car I toss it at him ( They didn’t think I could do it).

The most interesting thing was I really wasn’t nervous at all. In act if was very very easy, guess all the board trolling had some effect.:D
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Congrats, good to show up friends AND to show that the forum is helping you. Just remember to act this way all the time!
 

LikRetsam

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ahahhahahahah I love it!
 

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Good, but if you dont want the number, why get it (although good to prove to urself). Do you have to prove anythhing to your friends.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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