"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Finally getting with your long term crush
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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old_skoolr
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
backbreaker
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but i don't see this going anywhere and if i were y ou i'd be appaual by her actions
this is how i would persnally see the situtation
first of all i would never (anymore) be in a situtation where i liked a girl for 3 years and i wasn't fvcking her. but let's say i was. and i go in for the kiss and she responds. and then she has the freaking nerve after a night of making out to tell me this can't lead anywhere.
now,k you said yourself she has been a serial dater. i'm not even calling her a hoe or a slut. i'm saying you mean to tell me that i don't in your mind match the crateria as a man worth dating even though you dated half the city already?
next
there is no other way to see this. lol in the other thread we go into a very lenthgy discussion about the **** carousel and i argued that i don't believe in it. most of the time. lol this is the exception. this girl is a joke of a woman. i'm sorry.
the only reason she is kissing you is to make herself feel better / wanted until the next **** carousel conductor comes along and wets her whsitle.
you don't do it for her. i'm not even saying there is anything really wrong with you i think her judgement in men is god awful
when i first got here in was in a similar situation with a girl for 6 years. yes six. so this gets under my skin. oddly enough, i eventually got her. we quasi dated for one month and i was so disappoitnged because she was no where near worth all the trouble i went through
if i were you i'd let it go. i don't care how sexy or amazing she is she's playing games