"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Finally getting with your long term crush
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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old_skoolr
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
but i don't see this going anywhere and if i were y ou i'd be appaual by her actions
this is how i would persnally see the situtation
first of all i would never (anymore) be in a situtation where i liked a girl for 3 years and i wasn't fvcking her. but let's say i was. and i go in for the kiss and she responds. and then she has the freaking nerve after a night of making out to tell me this can't lead anywhere.
now,k you said yourself she has been a serial dater. i'm not even calling her a hoe or a slut. i'm saying you mean to tell me that i don't in your mind match the crateria as a man worth dating even though you dated half the city already?
next
there is no other way to see this. lol in the other thread we go into a very lenthgy discussion about the **** carousel and i argued that i don't believe in it. most of the time. lol this is the exception. this girl is a joke of a woman. i'm sorry.
the only reason she is kissing you is to make herself feel better / wanted until the next **** carousel conductor comes along and wets her whsitle.
you don't do it for her. i'm not even saying there is anything really wrong with you i think her judgement in men is god awful
when i first got here in was in a similar situation with a girl for 6 years. yes six. so this gets under my skin. oddly enough, i eventually got her. we quasi dated for one month and i was so disappoitnged because she was no where near worth all the trouble i went through
if i were you i'd let it go. i don't care how sexy or amazing she is she's playing games