You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
DJ Logic said:
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Better pick em upromangod said:Ah..... That picture brings back fond memories of my youth when I was a heavy drinker. I never went to bed with an ugly gal. I woke up with a lot of them.![]()
Cheers!
Now isn't that fascinating? ('Fascinating' in the intellectual sense of discovering a massive departure from our normal expectations of human life.) To have such extreme metabolism that you barely squeak by in life with 60 meals and 8,000 calories a day, and meanwhile you're rapidly aging.An American girl, who suffers from a rare and undiagnosed syndrome that prevents her from putting on weight, has to eat every 15 minutes in order to stay alive. Lizzie Velasquez, 21, from Texas, who is a communications student, weighs just 25.4 kg and has almost zero percent body fat, but is not anorexic. This, despite 60 small meals a day, consisting of between 5,000 and 8,000 calories daily. Velasquez had been born four weeks prematurely and doctors found there was minimal amniotic fluid protecting her in the womb. Genetic experts could not diagnose her illness, and her case fascinated doctors all over the world. Now she is part of a study run by Professor Abhimanyu Garg in Dallas. Garg believes Velasquez may have Neonatal Progeroid Syndrome which causes accelerated ageing, fat loss from the face and body. People with PRS often have triangular and prematurely aged faces with pointy nose.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Julius_Seizeher said:To find humor in the challenges faced by others is the most vile and lowest way to live, and it is to invite similiar challenges upon you and those you hold dear.
Those who slander and laugh at others invite destiny to punish them with horror and loss. The universe is indeed just, and in due time we truly reap everything that we have sewn.
I hope you are better than this. I hope you are not required to endure the realities of those you slander, before you can see the error of your ways.
I believe that this statement is untrue.Julius_Seizeher said:The universe is indeed just, and in due time we truly reap everything that we have sewn.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Reaping what one sows is a law of nature. Study those cases closer, it is obviously not what you think.ChalengeGuyFan said:I believe that this statement is untrue.
Too many a times the "bad guy" lived happily ever after.
DJ Logic said:Can you imagine having to eat every 15 minutes? Combine that with time spent sh*tting and what time do you really have to do anything? Can this poor girl even sit through a movie?
Man I am such a huge d*ck![]()
No, just a pathetic little f-a-ggot.DJ Logic said:Man I am such a huge d*ck![]()
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.