"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Final goodbye?

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Just broken up with my gf. have the option of her coming over tomorrow to have a last night together and say goodbye.

Should I? Shouldn't I?

She offered tomorrow in a text last night and i haven't replied. So i either never reply to it or I have her round. Have dinner, sex etc. and say goodbye.

Don't know what to do for the best. WOuld like her to possibly try get me back one day...
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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just never felt like she was fully into this and it caused problems as a result. trust issues etc. we just kept ending up fighting and thinking about breaking up, so we just did. we broke up for like a month twice before.
 
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I'm surprised people aren't calling you a faggot for having a girlfriend
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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It was my idea, so don't think she's trying to get me back. Although I suggested it, I'm now not sure.

I know I shouldn't, but I think I want her back.

With that in mind, what is best?:
1. don't reply to her text and go no contact (our last meeting was arguing etc.)
2. see her tomorrow. don't talk about issues. have a good time, have sex etc. then go no contact
 
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I'd do it. Completely ravage her, drain her of everything then ravage her some more. After that disappear completely for a couple months or so, then randomly invite her over for drinks or something one day. Profit. You've gained a new fvck buddy.
 
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It depends on how well he can play it. If he feels confident enough then yes, bang her for one last time. If not, then just go NC... NEXT !!
 
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skinnyguy said:
I'm surprised people aren't calling you a faggot for having a girlfriend
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Can't you just go away for good. :down:
 
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adam225 said:
It depends on how well he can play it. If he feels confident enough then yes, bang her for one last time. If not, then just go NC... NEXT !!
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Confident about what? I can bring her over and spend the night making her orgasm and then do NC. No doubts there.

I'm just wondering which is the best idea taking into consideration I may want her to break NC in a month or so.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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