"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Just broken up with my gf. have the option of her coming over tomorrow to have a last night together and say goodbye.

Should I? Shouldn't I?

She offered tomorrow in a text last night and i haven't replied. So i either never reply to it or I have her round. Have dinner, sex etc. and say goodbye.

Don't know what to do for the best. WOuld like her to possibly try get me back one day...
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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just never felt like she was fully into this and it caused problems as a result. trust issues etc. we just kept ending up fighting and thinking about breaking up, so we just did. we broke up for like a month twice before.
 
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I'm surprised people aren't calling you a faggot for having a girlfriend
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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It was my idea, so don't think she's trying to get me back. Although I suggested it, I'm now not sure.

I know I shouldn't, but I think I want her back.

With that in mind, what is best?:
1. don't reply to her text and go no contact (our last meeting was arguing etc.)
2. see her tomorrow. don't talk about issues. have a good time, have sex etc. then go no contact
 
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I'd do it. Completely ravage her, drain her of everything then ravage her some more. After that disappear completely for a couple months or so, then randomly invite her over for drinks or something one day. Profit. You've gained a new fvck buddy.
 
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It depends on how well he can play it. If he feels confident enough then yes, bang her for one last time. If not, then just go NC... NEXT !!
 
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skinnyguy said:
I'm surprised people aren't calling you a faggot for having a girlfriend
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Can't you just go away for good. :down:
 
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adam225 said:
It depends on how well he can play it. If he feels confident enough then yes, bang her for one last time. If not, then just go NC... NEXT !!
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Confident about what? I can bring her over and spend the night making her orgasm and then do NC. No doubts there.

I'm just wondering which is the best idea taking into consideration I may want her to break NC in a month or so.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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