"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Figuring out the Girl logic

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So i hung out with some girl partied a little and tried kissing her a couple times, she never had a boyfriend till now lol. now she says, "I'd piss off my boyfriend if we hung out ur the only guy that i've met that tried to put the moves on me the first time i met them. I'd party with you but i dont know when thatll be"


what is the best approach here? this was a text by the way
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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She's interested so keep it short and sweet. "Ok, give me a call when you feel like partyin again"

Then go and meet other girls, she has a boyfriend, so don't get your hopes too high. I am also talking to a girl with a boyfriend, but he is AFC, I usually try to let them make the plans with me when their taken.
 
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ok thanks, I think that will work out. its funny how like when she dropped me off and i kissed her neck she wouldnt shut up about how we should hang out again. I could have predicted she was going to start pulling these tests, really its just annoying.
 
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If this girl is really testing you like you say,then you should feel good about it.
Test from women are a good thing. She wouldn't waste her time testing if there wasn't at least some interest on her part. That's the good news. The bad news is that if you repeatedly fail the test,she'll lose that interest,and all her "IOIs" will be replaced with her "just being nice". And unless you're able to tell the difference between the IOIs and the just "nice behavior",she'll switch from one to the other,and you won't even realize it.
You'll keep on pursing her while you chances with her were over a looong time ago.
 
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