"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Figuring out the Girl logic

sprtfn2850

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So i hung out with some girl partied a little and tried kissing her a couple times, she never had a boyfriend till now lol. now she says, "I'd piss off my boyfriend if we hung out ur the only guy that i've met that tried to put the moves on me the first time i met them. I'd party with you but i dont know when thatll be"


what is the best approach here? this was a text by the way
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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She's interested so keep it short and sweet. "Ok, give me a call when you feel like partyin again"

Then go and meet other girls, she has a boyfriend, so don't get your hopes too high. I am also talking to a girl with a boyfriend, but he is AFC, I usually try to let them make the plans with me when their taken.
 

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ok thanks, I think that will work out. its funny how like when she dropped me off and i kissed her neck she wouldnt shut up about how we should hang out again. I could have predicted she was going to start pulling these tests, really its just annoying.
 

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If this girl is really testing you like you say,then you should feel good about it.
Test from women are a good thing. She wouldn't waste her time testing if there wasn't at least some interest on her part. That's the good news. The bad news is that if you repeatedly fail the test,she'll lose that interest,and all her "IOIs" will be replaced with her "just being nice". And unless you're able to tell the difference between the IOIs and the just "nice behavior",she'll switch from one to the other,and you won't even realize it.
You'll keep on pursing her while you chances with her were over a looong time ago.
 
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