"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Figuring out the Girl logic

sprtfn2850

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So i hung out with some girl partied a little and tried kissing her a couple times, she never had a boyfriend till now lol. now she says, "I'd piss off my boyfriend if we hung out ur the only guy that i've met that tried to put the moves on me the first time i met them. I'd party with you but i dont know when thatll be"


what is the best approach here? this was a text by the way
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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She's interested so keep it short and sweet. "Ok, give me a call when you feel like partyin again"

Then go and meet other girls, she has a boyfriend, so don't get your hopes too high. I am also talking to a girl with a boyfriend, but he is AFC, I usually try to let them make the plans with me when their taken.
 

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ok thanks, I think that will work out. its funny how like when she dropped me off and i kissed her neck she wouldnt shut up about how we should hang out again. I could have predicted she was going to start pulling these tests, really its just annoying.
 

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If this girl is really testing you like you say,then you should feel good about it.
Test from women are a good thing. She wouldn't waste her time testing if there wasn't at least some interest on her part. That's the good news. The bad news is that if you repeatedly fail the test,she'll lose that interest,and all her "IOIs" will be replaced with her "just being nice". And unless you're able to tell the difference between the IOIs and the just "nice behavior",she'll switch from one to the other,and you won't even realize it.
You'll keep on pursing her while you chances with her were over a looong time ago.
 
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