"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Figured it out i think

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hey i think i finnaly figured out the things you want to be as a Don Juan. This is what i have
1. Witty
2. Humorus
3. Care free
4. Kind
5. Playfull
6. Flirty
7. Touchy (not overly)
8. Confident
9. Open but Mysterious
10.Dominant
Not in order of importance, But i think this summarizes what we want to be. but if I forgot somthing or im wrong please tell me
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Are you saying these are things that you are? Or what you aspire to be?

Go rent the movie swingers, and watch the guy that's good with women (vince vaughn)... that is basically the complete attitude of the pickup master.
 
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Is this what works for you?

What you read that works for others is important since there is no reason to repeat their failures but at the same time failing can lead you to re-evaluate what is important.

I found this site after a decade of approaching. Some things work for me some won't. Reading is simple, figuring out what is productive isn't.

Best of luck.
 
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