"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Figured it out i think

Brian20o2

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hey i think i finnaly figured out the things you want to be as a Don Juan. This is what i have
1. Witty
2. Humorus
3. Care free
4. Kind
5. Playfull
6. Flirty
7. Touchy (not overly)
8. Confident
9. Open but Mysterious
10.Dominant
Not in order of importance, But i think this summarizes what we want to be. but if I forgot somthing or im wrong please tell me
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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So pimp its scary

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Are you saying these are things that you are? Or what you aspire to be?

Go rent the movie swingers, and watch the guy that's good with women (vince vaughn)... that is basically the complete attitude of the pickup master.
 

belividere

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Is this what works for you?

What you read that works for others is important since there is no reason to repeat their failures but at the same time failing can lead you to re-evaluate what is important.

I found this site after a decade of approaching. Some things work for me some won't. Reading is simple, figuring out what is productive isn't.

Best of luck.
 
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