"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Figured it out i think

Brian20o2

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hey i think i finnaly figured out the things you want to be as a Don Juan. This is what i have
1. Witty
2. Humorus
3. Care free
4. Kind
5. Playfull
6. Flirty
7. Touchy (not overly)
8. Confident
9. Open but Mysterious
10.Dominant
Not in order of importance, But i think this summarizes what we want to be. but if I forgot somthing or im wrong please tell me
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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So pimp its scary

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Are you saying these are things that you are? Or what you aspire to be?

Go rent the movie swingers, and watch the guy that's good with women (vince vaughn)... that is basically the complete attitude of the pickup master.
 

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Is this what works for you?

What you read that works for others is important since there is no reason to repeat their failures but at the same time failing can lead you to re-evaluate what is important.

I found this site after a decade of approaching. Some things work for me some won't. Reading is simple, figuring out what is productive isn't.

Best of luck.
 
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