"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Figured it out i think

Brian20o2

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hey i think i finnaly figured out the things you want to be as a Don Juan. This is what i have
1. Witty
2. Humorus
3. Care free
4. Kind
5. Playfull
6. Flirty
7. Touchy (not overly)
8. Confident
9. Open but Mysterious
10.Dominant
Not in order of importance, But i think this summarizes what we want to be. but if I forgot somthing or im wrong please tell me
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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So pimp its scary

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Are you saying these are things that you are? Or what you aspire to be?

Go rent the movie swingers, and watch the guy that's good with women (vince vaughn)... that is basically the complete attitude of the pickup master.
 

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Is this what works for you?

What you read that works for others is important since there is no reason to repeat their failures but at the same time failing can lead you to re-evaluate what is important.

I found this site after a decade of approaching. Some things work for me some won't. Reading is simple, figuring out what is productive isn't.

Best of luck.
 
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