"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Fighting over a woman is the most Beta thing that a man can do

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I was reading this, and it got me interested:
According to the Nashville Police Department, Beathard and another man, identified as Paul Trapeni III, 21, were stabbed during an altercation that began at around 2:50 a.m. Saturday outside of the Dogwood Bar & Grill.

Both men were taken to Vanderbilt University Medical Center after the stabbing, where they were pronounced dead. Another 21-year-old man was also stabbed during the incident and was taken to the hospital, where he was treated and released.

In a statement, the Nashville Police Department said the stabbings "appear to have resulted from an argument over a woman that began inside Dogwood Bar and then turned physical when the parties went outside."
my opinion: Really? :down:
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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what a lame medical center, both died from single knife stab (where unless it was heart or brain stabbed there would be huge probability of saving him)
 

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Historically it is not beta , in fact it is the most alpha, however in current age , when men only "allowed" to fight without warranty they will own the woman , it is kind of stupid to kill yourself for a woman that might breakup with you for any reason and you can do nothing to stop that.
 

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Historically it is not beta , in fact it is the most alpha
That's true, in nature the alpha males will fight the betas if they try to approach their women. But the manosphere sees this as beta.
Either the manosphere has messed up ideas about what is alpha and beta, or today's women are so bad that it makes it beta. Or maybe a little bit of both.
 

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Historically it is not beta , in fact it is the most alpha, however in current age , when men only "allowed" to fight without warranty they will own the woman , it is kind of stupid to kill yourself for a woman that might breakup with you for any reason and you can do nothing to stop that.
It comes from a place of scarcity. The guy risked it all just for the woman. It's beta af, or rather only a beta would jeopardize his wellbeing for a girl.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Tbh. The ideas of alpha and beta are conflated. There's no consensus on the meaning. The typical notions have strong ties to Hollywood archetypes w/ often low correlation to actual slayers so they're mostly fantasy.
 

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Fighting over a woman, I can sometimes understand, depending on the circumstances... but KILLING over one, I'll never understand
 

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That's true, in nature the alpha males will fight the betas if they try to approach their women. But the manosphere sees this as beta.
Either the manosphere has messed up ideas about what is alpha and beta, or today's women are so bad that it makes it beta. Or maybe a little bit of both.
yea but its 2019. just cuz cavemen protected their women doesnt mean its not time to evolve.

some guys try to be badass and do it as well in 2019 even to the point of killing other person. stupidity caused by virgins and men who had only one short relationship max.

theres so many humans in the world... including women.. so.. rational choice is to replace broken parts if theres so many of them available (and the price is low too). thing is most men thinks they wouldnt be able to find second gf so they let her walk over them and dostupid shyt like sacrificing or killing for her
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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In this day and age fighting over a woman is beta as faarrk.

You gotta be stupid to risk your life, over a woman who more than likely, will monkey branch one day, and wouldn't give a crap if you lived our died after.

Serious beta game!
agree. why risk your life over a woman who could literally change her mind about you in literally an hour/day/week/month? and once she does you’re usually (like you said) dead to her. no matter how well you treated her.

straight up pointless to fight over a woman
 

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agree. why risk your life over a woman who could literally change her mind about you in literally an hour/day/week/month? and once she does you’re usually (like you said) dead to her. no matter how well you treated her.

straight up pointless to fight over a woman
Dude once a woman has monkey branched, she will literally step over your DEAD body.. Her loyalty will be with her new man/saviour...

You could be on fire and she will look the other way.

If you are willing to kill another man over puzzy, in my eyes your the biggest phaggot that walked the earth.
 

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Just remember, when you kill your fellow man over that hoe and then go inside for life..

You won't get any prison visits from her, she will be too busy getting azz ****ed by Jamal & Tyrone!

Then again, you will be taking a serious fukin raping in the prison showers.

Don't fight over woman phagghots!
 

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Dude once a woman has monkey branched, she will literally step over your DEAD body.. Her loyalty will be with her new man/saviour...

You could be on fire and she will look the other way.

If you are willing to kill another man over puzzy, in my eyes your the biggest phaggot that walked the earth.
yep. I’ve experienced this a couple times. It’s quite crazy how they flip a kill switch in their mind once they monkey branch. everything “special” you and a woman go through and share means absolutely nothing when she flips that switch.

I agree with you.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Wars have been started over a woman.
 

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Not sure I agree. Maybe it's a generation thing.
Last 'fight' (if you want to call it that) I was in was a less than a week after I turned fifty. Before that, it was fifteen years earlier
A guy calls my (then) girlfriend a cvnt. He was rejected by her a while back.
With a low grade fever and still mourning my mother's death, I still couldn't accept this and so, I took a swing. It was a terrible punch, and (luckily) he didn't swing back. Instead he started yelling at me real loud (apparently to alert his brother to 'hold him back'). I was in no shape that day for a fight (not that I enjoy fighting or anything).

Again, maybe it's a generation thing, but I think I would have felt worse (coupled with my low-grade fever and processing my mother's death) if I had turned the other cheek.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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