"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Fighting in the dorm courtyard... attention man whorish?

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My mate had a bad night tonight. We both do martial arts. It was midnight. The moon is out. The night is a cool 20 C.

So we decide to go spar in the middle of our courtyard. It is a square shape, 3 stories high, with a courtyard in the middle. It is well lit and reminds me of tekken.

Anyway, we take our shirts off (we are both in pretty decent shape)... so we are fighting out there and we draw a small crowd. We keep going. Harder. Harder. We fight until neither of us can stand and we both fall on our backs.

Girls come up to us and give us praise. As we are walking back, a girl scans up and down my body and goes "ooooo yeah." and smiles at me. I would talk, but i am beaten, cut, and bruised. At that point, screw everything but a shower.

my question is... WAS THAT AN ATTENTION ***** thing to do? does it work for men? it felt good.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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haha... well we went out there because it was an awesome setting and we both felt like fighting, so thats why we initially got out there...

but when hb7-10 walk by... you know we kind of started making noise to draw attention... like making PSS sounds when we hit and just overall making noise so they would look but you know what? YOU KNOW WHAT??!?! I DONT EVEN CARE!!!! BECAUSE I AM SOOOOOO MUCH BETTER THAN EVERYONE ELSE!!!!!

JK :cheer:

and no i didnt get her number. im sure people will remember us. :)

we are thinking about going out tomorrow and doing it again. it was fun. i enjoyed the setting.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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haha because im ONLY ON WEEK II OF BOOTCAMP YA BEANHEAD!!! :)

also I'm not sure you have fought much but when you are bleeding from more than 3 points on your body, you are in soooooo much pain, and you are struggling to walk, the last thing you think with is your ****.

I was like "wow thats nice. wish you would have said that when i could talk to you"

alls i know is i feel like a man so IM SLEEPING WITHOUT PANTS TONIGHT!!! WHO'S WITH ME? HOORAH!!!
 

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sounds good. ill do it next time. i dont see how it could possibly hurt
 

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haha. I've been playing tekken too much.

also those girls were 10x hotter than that white trash darla. :)
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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