"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Fighting in the dorm courtyard... attention man whorish?

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My mate had a bad night tonight. We both do martial arts. It was midnight. The moon is out. The night is a cool 20 C.

So we decide to go spar in the middle of our courtyard. It is a square shape, 3 stories high, with a courtyard in the middle. It is well lit and reminds me of tekken.

Anyway, we take our shirts off (we are both in pretty decent shape)... so we are fighting out there and we draw a small crowd. We keep going. Harder. Harder. We fight until neither of us can stand and we both fall on our backs.

Girls come up to us and give us praise. As we are walking back, a girl scans up and down my body and goes "ooooo yeah." and smiles at me. I would talk, but i am beaten, cut, and bruised. At that point, screw everything but a shower.

my question is... WAS THAT AN ATTENTION ***** thing to do? does it work for men? it felt good.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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haha... well we went out there because it was an awesome setting and we both felt like fighting, so thats why we initially got out there...

but when hb7-10 walk by... you know we kind of started making noise to draw attention... like making PSS sounds when we hit and just overall making noise so they would look but you know what? YOU KNOW WHAT??!?! I DONT EVEN CARE!!!! BECAUSE I AM SOOOOOO MUCH BETTER THAN EVERYONE ELSE!!!!!

JK :cheer:

and no i didnt get her number. im sure people will remember us. :)

we are thinking about going out tomorrow and doing it again. it was fun. i enjoyed the setting.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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haha because im ONLY ON WEEK II OF BOOTCAMP YA BEANHEAD!!! :)

also I'm not sure you have fought much but when you are bleeding from more than 3 points on your body, you are in soooooo much pain, and you are struggling to walk, the last thing you think with is your ****.

I was like "wow thats nice. wish you would have said that when i could talk to you"

alls i know is i feel like a man so IM SLEEPING WITHOUT PANTS TONIGHT!!! WHO'S WITH ME? HOORAH!!!
 
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sounds good. ill do it next time. i dont see how it could possibly hurt
 
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haha. I've been playing tekken too much.

also those girls were 10x hotter than that white trash darla. :)
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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