CrashOverRide
Don Juan
For all those who have experience with fighting do you agree with the following advice?
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XNosTqjzskM
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XNosTqjzskM
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Holy words, despite my experience in martial arts is not as hugh as Bible's one I still can confirm that, most of the fights are won or lost according to the gas more than the strengh.Bible_Belt said:I didn't know they made a sequel to that movie. The first one was pretty awful. It was The Karate Kid with an mma plot.
One problem with rage is that it dumps all your adrenaline and you gas out in about 30 seconds. Another problem is that the more tense you are, the more it hurts to get hit, slammed, and have your joints twisted in the wrong direction. A good comparison is the way that drunk people tend to fare better in car crashes. Tense people don't punch as hard, either.
The two most common pieces of advice from any good mma corner man is going be RELAX and BREATHE. Those two things will make a huge difference.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.