CrashOverRide
Don Juan
For all those who have experience with fighting do you agree with the following advice?
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XNosTqjzskM
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XNosTqjzskM
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Holy words, despite my experience in martial arts is not as hugh as Bible's one I still can confirm that, most of the fights are won or lost according to the gas more than the strengh.Bible_Belt said:I didn't know they made a sequel to that movie. The first one was pretty awful. It was The Karate Kid with an mma plot.
One problem with rage is that it dumps all your adrenaline and you gas out in about 30 seconds. Another problem is that the more tense you are, the more it hurts to get hit, slammed, and have your joints twisted in the wrong direction. A good comparison is the way that drunk people tend to fare better in car crashes. Tense people don't punch as hard, either.
The two most common pieces of advice from any good mma corner man is going be RELAX and BREATHE. Those two things will make a huge difference.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.