"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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**Field Tested** first kiss tip

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I read at one of the other dating sites about a first kiss method that removes all the awkwardness and still has that powerful tension girls need on that first kiss.

When you have established deep rapport together and she is responding very much to your kino ask her if she likes surprises.. If she says "Yes" kiss her if she says "No" kiss her anyway, just say "My bad I forgot you didn't like surprises". But when I mean kiss take her breath away and lay a big one.

Just did this last night and had a very positive response ;)
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Very true Lucid.

I think the surprise question added even more anticipation.
 
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Originally posted by RedKnight04
Very true Lucid.

I think the surprise question added even more anticipation.
next time be like, im going into your pants, and then get in her panties.
 

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next time be like, im going into your pants, and then get in her panties.
Very good tactic! That has got to be used by every DJ that exists!!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Well, you didn't have to say anything cause she was already waiting for it. You did excite her a little with your "surprise" talk. Usually I'd save that for little gifts.
 

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that's modified version of mystery's tricks :D

then david deangelo started puttin it in his newsletter...

Mystery's routine is better...
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This tactic has been talked about wayyyyy too much. I've used it a few times, and I personally don't like it. I dont like needing an excuse to kiss someone. Maybe if I was super shy, it would work. But if your going to kiss someone, look into their eyes and then go for it. Don't use some cheesy line right beforehand.
 

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I dont like needing an excuse to kiss someone.
that's right...

anyways when mystery talked about this trick, he talked about already built up attraction... and then just make a fun or light joke like this...

don't put bits n peices of the whole things... it makes the nice trick ridiculous..

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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