"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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**Field Tested** first kiss tip

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I read at one of the other dating sites about a first kiss method that removes all the awkwardness and still has that powerful tension girls need on that first kiss.

When you have established deep rapport together and she is responding very much to your kino ask her if she likes surprises.. If she says "Yes" kiss her if she says "No" kiss her anyway, just say "My bad I forgot you didn't like surprises". But when I mean kiss take her breath away and lay a big one.

Just did this last night and had a very positive response ;)
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Very true Lucid.

I think the surprise question added even more anticipation.
 
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Originally posted by RedKnight04
Very true Lucid.

I think the surprise question added even more anticipation.
next time be like, im going into your pants, and then get in her panties.
 

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next time be like, im going into your pants, and then get in her panties.
Very good tactic! That has got to be used by every DJ that exists!!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Well, you didn't have to say anything cause she was already waiting for it. You did excite her a little with your "surprise" talk. Usually I'd save that for little gifts.
 

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that's modified version of mystery's tricks :D

then david deangelo started puttin it in his newsletter...

Mystery's routine is better...
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This tactic has been talked about wayyyyy too much. I've used it a few times, and I personally don't like it. I dont like needing an excuse to kiss someone. Maybe if I was super shy, it would work. But if your going to kiss someone, look into their eyes and then go for it. Don't use some cheesy line right beforehand.
 

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I dont like needing an excuse to kiss someone.
that's right...

anyways when mystery talked about this trick, he talked about already built up attraction... and then just make a fun or light joke like this...

don't put bits n peices of the whole things... it makes the nice trick ridiculous..

WhoAmI
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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