"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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**Field Tested** first kiss tip

RedKnight04

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I read at one of the other dating sites about a first kiss method that removes all the awkwardness and still has that powerful tension girls need on that first kiss.

When you have established deep rapport together and she is responding very much to your kino ask her if she likes surprises.. If she says "Yes" kiss her if she says "No" kiss her anyway, just say "My bad I forgot you didn't like surprises". But when I mean kiss take her breath away and lay a big one.

Just did this last night and had a very positive response ;)
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Very true Lucid.

I think the surprise question added even more anticipation.
 
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Originally posted by RedKnight04
Very true Lucid.

I think the surprise question added even more anticipation.
next time be like, im going into your pants, and then get in her panties.
 

RedKnight04

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next time be like, im going into your pants, and then get in her panties.
Very good tactic! That has got to be used by every DJ that exists!!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Well, you didn't have to say anything cause she was already waiting for it. You did excite her a little with your "surprise" talk. Usually I'd save that for little gifts.
 

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that's modified version of mystery's tricks :D

then david deangelo started puttin it in his newsletter...

Mystery's routine is better...
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This tactic has been talked about wayyyyy too much. I've used it a few times, and I personally don't like it. I dont like needing an excuse to kiss someone. Maybe if I was super shy, it would work. But if your going to kiss someone, look into their eyes and then go for it. Don't use some cheesy line right beforehand.
 

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I dont like needing an excuse to kiss someone.
that's right...

anyways when mystery talked about this trick, he talked about already built up attraction... and then just make a fun or light joke like this...

don't put bits n peices of the whole things... it makes the nice trick ridiculous..

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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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