"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

Read more...

"Field Reports" instead of "Success Stories"

trickynick

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 16, 2001
Messages
1,741
Reaction score
7
Location
USA
Hello, Allen.

Here is an observation you might consider. Having a forum called the Success Stories Forum may inhibit some people from posting there because they may be unsure as to whether to view a particular field outing as a success. In reality, every approach is a success and should be interpreted as such.

I think renaming the forum that is now called "Success Stories" to be called "Field Reports" would do several things.

a) It would encourage members of the board to go into the field, which is where real lessons are learned.

b) It would make for more activity in that forum.

c) Improve the overall content of the forum.

Having real world situations to base thoughts on would make for better discussions here. It would also discourage ill-considered or parrotted advice.

One could argue that the kinds of posts I am talking about could be posted in the main discussion forum, but I think this would be better because having a forum called "field reports" is going to make people WANT to post there, therefore making them get their face out of the screen and approach. Instead having it called "success stories" makes them insecure about their success or lack thereof and intimidates them.

Anyway, think about it.


Nick

------------------
You either own the game or it owns you!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

Read more...

Peter Parker

Don Juan
Joined
May 1, 2002
Messages
175
Reaction score
0
Location
Toronto
i agree
 

Peter Parker

Don Juan
Joined
May 1, 2002
Messages
175
Reaction score
0
Location
Toronto
i agree
 

SoSuave.com

Administrator
Joined
Apr 10, 2000
Messages
3,610
Reaction score
214
Location
Margaritaville
This is a good suggestion and I've been thinking about it. (And bonus points for originality.)

I don't want to pull all the "good stuff" out of the main forum though. We've already pulled out tips and success stories... although the SS forum is a little too slow to be considered a success itself.

Feel free to reply with your thoughts on this suggestion.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

Read more...

trickynick

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 16, 2001
Messages
1,741
Reaction score
7
Location
USA
Originally posted by sosuave.com:
This is a good suggestion and I've been thinking about it. (And bonus points for originality.)

I don't want to pull all the "good stuff" out of the main forum though. We've already pulled out tips and success stories... although the SS forum is a little too slow to be considered a success itself.

Feel free to reply with your thoughts on this suggestion.
Actually Allen, I think you will be very surprised how much more "good stuff" will be discussed in all the forums on your site once you start encouraging more field activity. The main forum will always be busy, you need not worry about that.

Nick


------------------
You either own the game or it owns you!
 

sneaker

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Apr 23, 2002
Messages
246
Reaction score
0
Age
42
ugh

[This message has been edited by sneaker (edited 06-10-2002).]
 

sneaker

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Apr 23, 2002
Messages
246
Reaction score
0
Age
42
This is a good suggestion and I've been thinking about it. (And bonus points for originality.)

he got it off the newsgroup at fastseduction.com

[This message has been edited by sneaker (edited 06-10-2002).]
 

trickynick

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 16, 2001
Messages
1,741
Reaction score
7
Location
USA
Originally posted by sneaker:
This is a good suggestion and I've been thinking about it. (And bonus points for originality.)

he got it off the newsgroup at fastseduction.com
Where do you think I've been posting lately?


------------------
You either own the game or it owns you!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

sneaker

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Apr 23, 2002
Messages
246
Reaction score
0
Age
42
Originally posted by trickynick:
Where do you think I've been posting lately?


i like the site alot but im not into the hypnotic seduction at all.
 

trickynick

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 16, 2001
Messages
1,741
Reaction score
7
Location
USA
Originally posted by sneaker:
i like the site alot but im not into the hypnotic seduction at all.
It's all worth knowing. Lots of mind blowing applications. I am not massively field experienced with it yet, but I am noticing great responses to blatant applications of it even in casual interactions with women. However I will say that I believe the people who rely too heavily on hypnotic tactics to be guys who have a deep seated feeling of unworthiness of the women they are pursuing and see NLP wizardry as much easier than confronting the much tougher issue of their desparation for the approval of women due to their poor self image.

------------------
You either own the game or it owns you!
 

lordclem*

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 29, 2001
Messages
519
Reaction score
2
Location
london ,england
good idea
 

Peter Parker

Don Juan
Joined
May 1, 2002
Messages
175
Reaction score
0
Location
Toronto
Ya its true hard to define success
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

Read more...

2N Turbo

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Jun 9, 2002
Messages
301
Reaction score
0
Location
Dallas, Texas
The success forum has suffered massive failure.

------------------
The words typed above this sentence is a work of art. I call it, "Lesbian Seagull."
 

De La Soul

Master Don Juan
Joined
Mar 4, 2002
Messages
829
Reaction score
3
Location
It's a badly-kept secret.
I brought it up again in the Moderators' Forum. Allen has confirmed that Success Stories is on the way out.

I hope I was allowed to say that!


Whether it will be replaced by Field Reports is another matter. Only Allen has the answers...

De La Soul
 

SexPDX

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 20, 2002
Messages
1,483
Reaction score
11
Age
47
Location
Portland, Oregon
Originally posted by De La Soul:
I brought it up again in the Moderators' Forum. Allen has confirmed that Success Stories is on the way out.

I hope I was allowed to say that!


Whether it will be replaced by Field Reports is another matter. Only Allen has the answers...

De La Soul
I was a mod when the success forum was introduced. Seemed like a good idea at the time.

------------------
- The performer known as Nick
 

affirmed

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Aug 26, 2002
Messages
245
Reaction score
1
Location
UK
Success stories is a good idea.... it can still contain them... but it does need to be called 'field reports'

The term 'success stories' is rarely ever used in the forums because, as tricknick says, ALL approaches and experiences should be thought of as successes.

I definitely agree with this course of action. And moving all the best posts wouldn't be a problem, just leave them in the general board, only new posts need go in 'field reports'
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

Read more...

Top