"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Phat

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Was at the mall- Saw these two girls im assuming they were friends because they were walking with eachother. So im walking behind them and there talking all loud and shyt. So i join into the conversation out of no wheres and Im like .... " NOO WAyyyy" and they start laughing . So i walk away. I see them again and they come up to me and is like " NOOO WAYYY" and they are giggling and crap. then they walk off.. then i see them again and there like smiling at me and stuff so im like "yooo come overr here" and they come over... I start chattin with them.. And i ended up leavin with both of there numbers.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Good Job man!......Shows a lot of confidence. I am 16...in a mall setting have you ever approached a girl and they turned out to be like 24?
 
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Originally posted by Smooth Player 056
Good Job man!......Shows a lot of confidence. I am 16...in a mall setting have u ever approached a girl and they turned out to be like 24?
yes... they get really pissed when they find out im only 18 lol
 

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Yeah, it's a bit of a killer when you find out that there's an age swing eitherway.

I swear to god, I thought she was 16!

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what?
 

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Yeah, sometimes you'd get a glimpse of what looks like a HB that's your age, a fair way away. Then you'd get closer and BAM! She's like bloody 25 or something.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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