Was at the mall- Saw these two girls im assuming they were friends because they were walking with eachother. So im walking behind them and there talking all loud and shyt. So i join into the conversation out of no wheres and Im like .... " NOO WAyyyy" and they start laughing . So i walk away. I see them again and they come up to me and is like " NOOO WAYYY" and they are giggling and crap. then they walk off.. then i see them again and there like smiling at me and stuff so im like "yooo come overr here" and they come over... I start chattin with them.. And i ended up leavin with both of there numbers.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Field report.
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