Was at the mall- Saw these two girls im assuming they were friends because they were walking with eachother. So im walking behind them and there talking all loud and shyt. So i join into the conversation out of no wheres and Im like .... " NOO WAyyyy" and they start laughing . So i walk away. I see them again and they come up to me and is like " NOOO WAYYY" and they are giggling and crap. then they walk off.. then i see them again and there like smiling at me and stuff so im like "yooo come overr here" and they come over... I start chattin with them.. And i ended up leavin with both of there numbers.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Field report.
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