"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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RYilmaz123

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hey guys whats going on I just need some analysis on my field report


was at the mall with my 2 friends. One of my friends goes up to approach this girl who is definately not her taste. Anywaze he goes up and she basically rejects him saying that hes not her type. Then my friend goes but you should meet one of my friends. Then the girl responds, "The cute guy with the hat, introduce us" Basically this is how the conversation goes.

hb: hi my name is hb
me: hi im RYimaz
some fluff talk, ask her what school she goes to where she works etc etc...
The whole time I was trying to remain very confident and I could tell by her bodylanguage that she atleast thought I was attractive. Then she gives me a really tough question
hb: so you had to have your friend come over here and approach me for u
me: no its not like that... he just wanted to talk to you

Then we fluff a bit more and I go in for the close
me: it was nice talking to you but let me get your number so we can chat sometime
hb: how about I get your number
me: sorri I dont give out my number
hb: oh so your the private type huh?
me: yea I guess you can say that, but I should go see my friends, it was nice meeting you
hb: yea you too bye

Alrite fellaz I just want an analysis of what I did right and what I did wrong. I already have a feeling a couple of my faults but just want some outsiders opinion. Thanks
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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hb "so you had to get your friend to come over and talk to me"

"yeah i just got soo nervous when i saw such a BEAUTIFUL girl i just get all nervous inside" youd have to say it a certain way..

"actualy my friend brought the wrong girl, i was pointing to the one behind you"


you said "so we can chat"? idk, be more assertive "give me your number so this doesnt have to be the last time i see you" (or "you see me" if shes the kind of girl that would dig a ****y attitude)
 
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hb "so you had to get your friend to come over and talk to me"

you "actually, it seemed like he was more into you, so I let him take the lead"

dont defend yourself, its shows weakness
 
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