"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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RYilmaz123

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hey guys whats going on I just need some analysis on my field report


was at the mall with my 2 friends. One of my friends goes up to approach this girl who is definately not her taste. Anywaze he goes up and she basically rejects him saying that hes not her type. Then my friend goes but you should meet one of my friends. Then the girl responds, "The cute guy with the hat, introduce us" Basically this is how the conversation goes.

hb: hi my name is hb
me: hi im RYimaz
some fluff talk, ask her what school she goes to where she works etc etc...
The whole time I was trying to remain very confident and I could tell by her bodylanguage that she atleast thought I was attractive. Then she gives me a really tough question
hb: so you had to have your friend come over here and approach me for u
me: no its not like that... he just wanted to talk to you

Then we fluff a bit more and I go in for the close
me: it was nice talking to you but let me get your number so we can chat sometime
hb: how about I get your number
me: sorri I dont give out my number
hb: oh so your the private type huh?
me: yea I guess you can say that, but I should go see my friends, it was nice meeting you
hb: yea you too bye

Alrite fellaz I just want an analysis of what I did right and what I did wrong. I already have a feeling a couple of my faults but just want some outsiders opinion. Thanks
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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hb "so you had to get your friend to come over and talk to me"

"yeah i just got soo nervous when i saw such a BEAUTIFUL girl i just get all nervous inside" youd have to say it a certain way..

"actualy my friend brought the wrong girl, i was pointing to the one behind you"


you said "so we can chat"? idk, be more assertive "give me your number so this doesnt have to be the last time i see you" (or "you see me" if shes the kind of girl that would dig a ****y attitude)
 
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hb "so you had to get your friend to come over and talk to me"

you "actually, it seemed like he was more into you, so I let him take the lead"

dont defend yourself, its shows weakness
 
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