"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Field report - Strange

Sneevox

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This field report is different than the others. I had a "success". I got to the point in which I could easily have sex with a woman. I ended up having sex with her, but when I went stick my schlong in, I had it about halfway in and I instantly felt incredibly depressed and uncomfortable.

Maybe it was some spiritual thing that I don't understand, or maybe I just subconsciously know I can do better than her (I'd rate her face maybe a 5 and her body about 6.5).

Keep in mind that my ratings are really, really strict. She looked about average to me. In fact, the way I rate is that 7 is the average "pretty" girl you see. When the girl gets to an 8, she's definitely "hot". At a 9, she's freaking beautiful, and 10 is "perfect", and since nobody is perfect, it's unlikely that I'll ever see a 10 unless she's not even from this dimension.

Anyways, just wondering if anybody else has experienced this.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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You didn't really want her, you wanted to know you could do her, then once you did you regretted it since she was just a lay - you feel shallow and weak saddened that this means nothing to you?

Aim for the stars - only go for what you really want. Don't go lower just because you can.
 

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Desdinova said:
Buyer's remorse.
Lol thats what I was trying to say :D
 

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Purefilth said:
You didn't really want her, you wanted to know you could do her, then once you did you regretted it since she was just a lay - you feel shallow and weak saddened that this means nothing to you?

Aim for the stars - only go for what you really want. Don't go lower just because you can.
I figured it was something like that.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Yes, happened to me on NYE. I tried sticking it in, realized I didn't want her and right then she conveniently passed out from all the alcohol so I ejected. Daygamed yesterday and am going after much better targets.
 
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