"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Field report - Strange

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This field report is different than the others. I had a "success". I got to the point in which I could easily have sex with a woman. I ended up having sex with her, but when I went stick my schlong in, I had it about halfway in and I instantly felt incredibly depressed and uncomfortable.

Maybe it was some spiritual thing that I don't understand, or maybe I just subconsciously know I can do better than her (I'd rate her face maybe a 5 and her body about 6.5).

Keep in mind that my ratings are really, really strict. She looked about average to me. In fact, the way I rate is that 7 is the average "pretty" girl you see. When the girl gets to an 8, she's definitely "hot". At a 9, she's freaking beautiful, and 10 is "perfect", and since nobody is perfect, it's unlikely that I'll ever see a 10 unless she's not even from this dimension.

Anyways, just wondering if anybody else has experienced this.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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You didn't really want her, you wanted to know you could do her, then once you did you regretted it since she was just a lay - you feel shallow and weak saddened that this means nothing to you?

Aim for the stars - only go for what you really want. Don't go lower just because you can.
 

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Desdinova said:
Buyer's remorse.
Lol thats what I was trying to say :D
 

Sneevox

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Purefilth said:
You didn't really want her, you wanted to know you could do her, then once you did you regretted it since she was just a lay - you feel shallow and weak saddened that this means nothing to you?

Aim for the stars - only go for what you really want. Don't go lower just because you can.
I figured it was something like that.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Yes, happened to me on NYE. I tried sticking it in, realized I didn't want her and right then she conveniently passed out from all the alcohol so I ejected. Daygamed yesterday and am going after much better targets.
 
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