"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Field Report No.1 - "Got kiss, grabbed tits, no fvck because LMR"

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Hello guys,

I am going to post my field reports about my plate spinning job and keep them updatedly constantly.

So I got this number from this cute cashier at a drugstore (you can check out my old comment about it), and yesterday I finally had a date with her.

So I chose this bar, we had some craft beer and food. We were sitting side-by-side with one another, so I had tons of chances to heavily kino-ed her, like put my arm on her shoulder, gently touching her waist, touching her leg with mine, which I received 0% resistance from her.

When it's around 10, she said she had to leave, I told her let's go have a walk and asked for the check.

And we were having a walk and had some rest on a chair at the nearby public park. I let her blah blah blah most of the time, teased her occasionally, let her have good laughs, and when I felt the "vibe" was right, I just went for the French kiss, and went on with the conversation. At some point she said jokingly "How dare you did that when it's only the first time we meet" to which I replied "Is there a law against that? If not then that's what I'm doing" and then proceeded to kiss her again.

So, I managed to pull down her upper part of the dress to reveal a very nice pair of bouncy and round tits. I sucked them hard. She moaned hard. I also managed to fingered her then very wet pvsssy, which she let me. But the moment I pulled out my d!ck and tried to penetrate, she turned LMR. Knowing about LMR, I stopped trying.

When I got home, she texted me asking am I home yet, to which I replied yes. But, here's the funny part, she hid her contents on the messaging app with me (it was visible before).

I sent her a text asking "I saw you hid your contents with me? What's up with that *smirk*", to which she still didn't reply so far. But I'm cool with that because thanks God I have other options to date for the upcoming days aka abundant mindset.

So yeah, this is my Field Report No.1.

On Tuesday night I'll have a 1st date with a slutty FWB I harvested from Tinder, and that'll be my Field Report No.2.

Cheers.
 
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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What's the purpose of acknowledging what she did to her messaging app? Always think of what you have to gain when you respond to women. Asking her "what's up with that?" has no benefit to you. It doesn't matter why she did it...you ignore and act as if you never saw. It should not bother you nor interest you as to a woman's reasons for doing something. They are rarely up front with their answers anyways. They are women...don't try to figure them out. When you text a woman, always have a purpose to your messages. If it's not to tease or set up the next date, then it probably doesn't need to be sent. Especially a girl you just met and haven't smashed.
 

manfrombelow

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What's the purpose of acknowledging what she did to her messaging app? Always think of what you have to gain when you respond to women. Asking her "what's up with that?" has no benefit to you. It doesn't matter why she did it...you ignore and act as if you never saw. It should not bother you nor interest you as to a woman's reasons for doing something. They are rarely up front with their answers anyways. They are women...don't try to figure them out. When you text a woman, always have a purpose to your messages. If it's not to tease or set up the next date, then it probably doesn't need to be sent. Especially a girl you just met and haven't smashed.
Update: She reopened it again after that question and have been initiating contact with me in a lovely-dovey manner ever since. Thanks for the input, bro. :)
 

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What’s the deal with all these messaging apps?

Maybe it’s because I’m not a Gen Z’er and don’t quite get it.
snapchat means almost guaranteed nudes because of the mechanics of the app. She's sending them to other dudes anyway, may as well be one of them. Just don't act thirsty.
 

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And we were having a walk and had some rest on a chair at the nearby public park.

So, I managed to pull down her upper part of the dress to reveal a very nice pair of bouncy and round tits. I sucked them hard. She moaned hard. I also managed to fingered her then very wet pvsssy, which she let me. But the moment I pulled out my d!ck and tried to penetrate, she turned LMR.
Dude, did you try to fvck this chick in a public park on a first date? Most non-crazy girls I'd think wouldn't be putting out at a park on a first date. LOL

Man if so, I'd say you're doing good if she's still contacting you.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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EyeBRollin

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Doing well OP. Tighten some things up.

"How dare you did that when it's only the first time we meet" to which I replied "Is there a law against that? If not then that's what I'm doing" and then proceeded to kiss her again.
This is still a bit defensive sounding. Gotta stay cool. An even better response:

“I know... I’m misbehaving. You wanna punish me?” (Look in her eyes and say with a smirk)

I sent her a text asking "I saw you hid your contents with me? What's up with that *smirk*", to which she still didn't reply so far. But I'm cool with that because thanks God I have other options to date for the upcoming days aka abundant mindset.
Mistake. Too many guys fumble the football when it comes to texting. When in doubt, say nothing. Just put the phone down.
 
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