nicksaiz65
Master Don Juan
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Okay so I expected to be typing up a Bang Report. This is obviously not that. I was hoping I could get some pointers on my game, what went wrong, and what I can do from here on out.
I invited a girl over to my dorm room yesterday "to study." She said sure and came over. We talked a little bit. And then I leaned in to kiss her. Zero reciprocation, and she was just like "whoa." So I backed off. After that, we just studied and I eventually threw her out.
I understand that sh*t tests are indeed a thing, but this didn't feel like a "back off and try again later" type thing. It felt completely different so I didn't even try again.
I think my game was fine overall. I'm guessing this is just a girl with a weak attraction level towards me that is coming over just to kill time. That issue can be solved simply by continuing to hit the gym hard and boosting my SMV.
Roosh V also says that you should try to kiss a girl BEFORE you bring her to your place so you can eliminate the timewasters like this.
The other possibility that springs into my mind is that I'm not making things "man to woman" enough. Like she thinks I'm just being friendly and I just wanna hang out. How can I make sure she knows I want to put my d!ck in her, and I'm not just being friendly? As of now, all I do is make strong eye contact, kino, and tease/flirt. Maybe I should start throwing in statements like "you're really cute/sexy" when I'm texting her? I know they say to not give compliments, but I'm starting to break the rules and find my own game. I'm beginning to think that "no compliments" is a newbie rule so that they don't smother the girl. Can you compliment and show intent in an Alpha way? I'm an intermediate now so I may be able to break that newbie "no compliments" rule.
I ask because I'm hanging out with another girl this week and I don't want this to happen again. How can I prevent a situation like this from happening again?
I invited a girl over to my dorm room yesterday "to study." She said sure and came over. We talked a little bit. And then I leaned in to kiss her. Zero reciprocation, and she was just like "whoa." So I backed off. After that, we just studied and I eventually threw her out.
I understand that sh*t tests are indeed a thing, but this didn't feel like a "back off and try again later" type thing. It felt completely different so I didn't even try again.
I think my game was fine overall. I'm guessing this is just a girl with a weak attraction level towards me that is coming over just to kill time. That issue can be solved simply by continuing to hit the gym hard and boosting my SMV.
Roosh V also says that you should try to kiss a girl BEFORE you bring her to your place so you can eliminate the timewasters like this.
The other possibility that springs into my mind is that I'm not making things "man to woman" enough. Like she thinks I'm just being friendly and I just wanna hang out. How can I make sure she knows I want to put my d!ck in her, and I'm not just being friendly? As of now, all I do is make strong eye contact, kino, and tease/flirt. Maybe I should start throwing in statements like "you're really cute/sexy" when I'm texting her? I know they say to not give compliments, but I'm starting to break the rules and find my own game. I'm beginning to think that "no compliments" is a newbie rule so that they don't smother the girl. Can you compliment and show intent in an Alpha way? I'm an intermediate now so I may be able to break that newbie "no compliments" rule.
I ask because I'm hanging out with another girl this week and I don't want this to happen again. How can I prevent a situation like this from happening again?
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