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Field Report: Jesse Pinkman approaches a sugar baby and it goes horribly wrong.

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For quite a while, I have been hyping up the value of daygame and how I rather do that than be "one of the guys" playing golf and chugging beer over the weekends. Well, I finally had a weekend where that got tested.

After what was a fun as heck Saturday, I get hit up by my wing to daygame on Sunday. I had a ton on my mind with my company announcing last week that they are reducing headcount and seeing a few coworkers I was with get let go. Couple that in with some stress of medical appointments and feeling drained from everything (including a wild Saturday), I was not at my best. Still, I got a nice workout in and headed out to daygame with my boy.

I arrive at a spot we love to go to and notice immediately how much quality there was. For some reason, I froze up and didn't really approach. I just listened to music and got a bottle of water because it was over 90 degrees and I was exhausted. Get in line at the local 711 and noticed that the clerk was pissed off at everyone because of how a herd had formed instead of a line. Starts yelling at me for not listening to her and then I say screw it, just get to where she needs to me to so I can pay for the freaking water. Get in and it was a drink much needed!

Finally, my wing showed up and we took a lap around. My wing was busier than usual, probably doing a few approaches as I stood by. I missed a couple of opportunities that my wing capitalized on instead. I was feeling it, dammit Pinkman, do the freaking approach already. I approach a woman who was waiting for a ride and it didn't go all that well, she was nice but the ride was actually her family including a mom in the passenger seat that gave me the old stink eye.

We keep going and I approach a Latin girl sitting down. We chatted for a solid minute but then she tells me she flies back to NYC tomorrow. I could have done more with it but being that I am still somewhat new, I say screw it. I could have gone for the close but then didn't.

I approach another woman standing around on her phone with cute reading glasses but she is the typical Miami Argentinian, stuck up and gives me the typical Latina rejection where they smile at you and say "thank you" or "have a nice day". What's weird is that she was actually a natural redhead with freckles with a tall and skinny body.

Things were going somewhat alright and the women had been nice. Then I approach this one blonde with sunglasses, going direct as I do. So far, it is my best approach of the entire day and she is receptive to everything, even laughing at what I say. She was Russian. I walk with her and everything but then notice as I am walking, an old guy gets right between us. I look confused on what is happening until he turns to me and says "that's my wife!" with an angry scowl on my face and a group of people around us.

I've rarely had this happen so I say "sir, I am sorry for that" and walk away but then he walks me down and says "how sleazy!". Guy shouts at me as a handful of people look on and my day is already rough as is. I look back and turn around as this dude is raging, shame had overcome me.

So I breathe and pause, make eye contact and stare at the man who is now following me. "I should report you to the police!" he looks at me, angrily pointing his finger as I had turned around. I say in a calm tone "when you said she was your wife, I apologized, what more do you want me to do?". The dude angrily responds saying "not talk to women you don't know", loudly. Now other people are looking on, including a group of black dudes who are laughing hysterically and I am afraid that I have security called on me.

My wing comes over and backs me up, says to the guy "hey buddy, it was a mistake". The guy is still angry and raging mad at me but he walks away, still staring at me angrily. I stare in bewildered amusement but then try to process what had happened. I was do direct, so straightforward, and showed clear intent that I was into this woman but she never told me she was married. It shows me a new appreciation for women that are married now and let you know ASAP. My wing tells me "yeah dude, I had thought of approaching her earlier but she was with him but I saw her all into you and even grabbing your shoulder so I decided not to intervene". I was as confused as him.

The outcome?

Not fun at all, obviously. First experience I have had after doing daygame for months which was just awful. However, as bad as it would have been, your boy is not going to play Golf on weekends or chug beers with normies. Jesse Pinkman games on! So much to learn though, I could have been more selective in approaching here.

Rough weekend though!
 

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You ahould take a break from cold approaching.
 

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This summer is rough for a lot of us man. We will make it! Later down the road, you will be able to tell this as a story for self development or at a bar haha
 

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I've only done daygame with a wing once. My daygame sessions have been mostly alone.

There are some uniquely Miami things there. Sugar babies are more of a South FL thing than a lot of places. Argentine women and a lot of tourists are also quite Miami.

That's a bad day. Golfing would be more serene but you can only do that as a boring normie with a boring 5-6 at best girlfriend/wife.
 

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nothing unusual here. sounds like a typical day. you talk to strangers some of them will be receptive some of them will try to fight you. why even waste your time to post this?
and about the black people laughing: whenever someone laughs at you or makes fun of you during pick up, think about this: at least you had the balls to do it, they didn't. saturday I tried to talk to this girl and this group of guys was watching, when the girl walked away, one of them started laughing lol lol. I was about to say "I least I had the courage to do it, you are standing there sucking your mother's titts" but I didn't want to escalate the situation.
 

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This summer is rough for a lot of us man. We will make it! Later down the road, you will be able to tell this as a story for self development or at a bar haha
Summer has been rough in general brother, tell me about it. I am starting to realize how hellish it is in Miami with most of the locals gone and how cranky people, especially women, are in this god forsaken heat. However, tons of lessons to learn from it and will only make me stronger in the Fall (October onwards) where the opportunities will be even better. I am definitely telling this story lol.
 

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I've only done daygame with a wing once. My daygame sessions have been mostly alone.

There are some uniquely Miami things there. Sugar babies are more of a South FL thing than a lot of places. Argentine women and a lot of tourists are also quite Miami.

That's a bad day. Golfing would be more serene but you can only do that as a boring normie with a boring 5-6 at best girlfriend/wife.
Sugar babies galore here man, it is so freaking evident in this city. The most depressing place at times is the Brickell City Center, you see nothing but gold digging wives crawling your typical Zara and Sephora stores. You almost feel for how empty and depressing some of these people are because if you daygame there enough, you keep running into the same women. All of them have that thousand **** stare and that empty look on their face, sociopathic in a way. However, if you are patient and if you walk around enough, you also find a ton of younger women that are quite approachable.

South Beach is more touristy and has less gold diggers around but it is also full of women who will leave on that very day. Beware of the restaurants along Lincoln Road, the more the staff court you to come in, the scammier they are. Expect high prices and sub-par at best food.

Oh yes, the good ole Argentines. So many of them but overall so hard to game compared to most other women of other nationalities. Colombian women are a lot more approachable though.

Thing with golfing and drowning beers is that it will always be there. I'll be in my 40s one day and maybe I get bored and have a wife, then when I have given it all up I can golf with a depressed look on my face. Till then, game on my friend.
 

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Summer has been rough in general brother, tell me about it. I am starting to realize how hellish it is in Miami with most of the locals gone and how cranky people, especially women, are in this god forsaken heat. However, tons of lessons to learn from it and will only make me stronger in the Fall (October onwards) where the opportunities will be even better. I am definitely telling this story lol.
Outdoor pickup from May 1-September 30 in the Sun Belt regions of the USA is pretty tough. Pool parties exist but are not a good option.
Larger, commercialized pool parties. often with DJs connected to a business (bar/restaurant, hotel) with hundreds of semi-strangers attending aren't a good use of time. In my experience, these type of pool parties tend to be bigger sausage fests and don't usually live up to the hype as a pickup option. I'm exempting the Las Vegas hotel/casino from the previous 2 sentence analysis. My experience is solely based on the Dallas pool party scene.

Pool parties are better at smaller apartment communities or private residences where it is more social circle game.

In Miami, you have beaches as a pickup option. I don't know much about beach pickup. I hope it is better than larger, commercialized pool parties.

In Phoenix, plenty of locals avoid the hiking trails from April 15-October 15. You can do pickup on Phoenix's hiking trails during the cooler months of the year. In the summer, the only way to do that in Phoenix would be to go out at sunrise (around 5 AM) and try to do pickup from 5 am-7:30 am. In Dallas, I have tried pickup early in the morning on a walking path in summer too.

Sugar babies galore here man, it is so freaking evident in this city. The most depressing place at times is the Brickell City Center, you see nothing but gold digging wives crawling your typical Zara and Sephora stores. You almost feel for how empty and depressing some of these people are
Florida and Arizona are the worst for sugar babies. In the Phoenix area, it's common to see sugar babies at Scottsdale Fashion Square or at Kierland in North Scottsdale. On the whole, I think Miami is worse for that than Phoenix.

if you daygame there enough, you keep running into the same women. All of them have that thousand **** stare and that empty look on their face, sociopathic in a way. However, if you are patient and if you walk around enough, you also find a ton of younger women that are quite approachable.
If you see the same women repeatedly daygaming, perhaps you would need to diversify daygaming locations.

South Beach is more touristy and has less gold diggers around but it is also full of women who will leave on that very day. Beware of the restaurants along Lincoln Road, the more the staff court you to come in, the scammier they are. Expect high prices and sub-par at best food.
Sounds typical. Las Vegas locals avoid The Strip in their leisure time. New Orleans locals avoid the French Quarter in their leisure. If you are a Miami local and want to meet a local woman, avoid South Beach then.

Thing with golfing and drowning beers is that it will always be there. I'll be in my 40s one day and maybe I get bored and have a wife, then when I have given it all up I can golf with a depressed look on my face. Till then, game on my friend.
Don't do that! That's a horrible life plan.
 
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by the way, good job on de-escalating the situation and not letting your ego get in the way. people are crazy and they punch or shoot you for no reason.
 

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Well done Jesse! It's all a learning curve. You have learnt from this. That has to be good right.

How were you supposed to know it was his wife!! I would of said look i'm sorry...i did'nt know. From a sexual evolutionarily stance he see's you as a mate poacher. He is acting VIOLENT because he see's you as a threat. It really piques my curiosity how in a world full of laws, that will send a man to prison for violence, men still seem to mate guard with violence.
 

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For quite a while, I have been hyping up the value of daygame and how I rather do that than be "one of the guys" playing golf and chugging beer over the weekends. Well, I finally had a weekend where that got tested.

After what was a fun as heck Saturday, I get hit up by my wing to daygame on Sunday. I had a ton on my mind with my company announcing last week that they are reducing headcount and seeing a few coworkers I was with get let go. Couple that in with some stress of medical appointments and feeling drained from everything (including a wild Saturday), I was not at my best. Still, I got a nice workout in and headed out to daygame with my boy.

I arrive at a spot we love to go to and notice immediately how much quality there was. For some reason, I froze up and didn't really approach. I just listened to music and got a bottle of water because it was over 90 degrees and I was exhausted. Get in line at the local 711 and noticed that the clerk was pissed off at everyone because of how a herd had formed instead of a line. Starts yelling at me for not listening to her and then I say screw it, just get to where she needs to me to so I can pay for the freaking water. Get in and it was a drink much needed!

Finally, my wing showed up and we took a lap around. My wing was busier than usual, probably doing a few approaches as I stood by. I missed a couple of opportunities that my wing capitalized on instead. I was feeling it, dammit Pinkman, do the freaking approach already. I approach a woman who was waiting for a ride and it didn't go all that well, she was nice but the ride was actually her family including a mom in the passenger seat that gave me the old stink eye.

We keep going and I approach a Latin girl sitting down. We chatted for a solid minute but then she tells me she flies back to NYC tomorrow. I could have done more with it but being that I am still somewhat new, I say screw it. I could have gone for the close but then didn't.

I approach another woman standing around on her phone with cute reading glasses but she is the typical Miami Argentinian, stuck up and gives me the typical Latina rejection where they smile at you and say "thank you" or "have a nice day". What's weird is that she was actually a natural redhead with freckles with a tall and skinny body.

Things were going somewhat alright and the women had been nice. Then I approach this one blonde with sunglasses, going direct as I do. So far, it is my best approach of the entire day and she is receptive to everything, even laughing at what I say. She was Russian. I walk with her and everything but then notice as I am walking, an old guy gets right between us. I look confused on what is happening until he turns to me and says "that's my wife!" with an angry scowl on my face and a group of people around us.

I've rarely had this happen so I say "sir, I am sorry for that" and walk away but then he walks me down and says "how sleazy!". Guy shouts at me as a handful of people look on and my day is already rough as is. I look back and turn around as this dude is raging, shame had overcome me.

So I breathe and pause, make eye contact and stare at the man who is now following me. "I should report you to the police!" he looks at me, angrily pointing his finger as I had turned around. I say in a calm tone "when you said she was your wife, I apologized, what more do you want me to do?". The dude angrily responds saying "not talk to women you don't know", loudly. Now other people are looking on, including a group of black dudes who are laughing hysterically and I am afraid that I have security called on me.

My wing comes over and backs me up, says to the guy "hey buddy, it was a mistake". The guy is still angry and raging mad at me but he walks away, still staring at me angrily. I stare in bewildered amusement but then try to process what had happened. I was do direct, so straightforward, and showed clear intent that I was into this woman but she never told me she was married. It shows me a new appreciation for women that are married now and let you know ASAP. My wing tells me "yeah dude, I had thought of approaching her earlier but she was with him but I saw her all into you and even grabbing your shoulder so I decided not to intervene". I was as confused as him.

The outcome?

Not fun at all, obviously. First experience I have had after doing daygame for months which was just awful. However, as bad as it would have been, your boy is not going to play Golf on weekends or chug beers with normies. Jesse Pinkman games on! So much to learn though, I could have been more selective in approaching here.

Rough weekend though!
There is a lot going on in that post.

I think you scared a lotta readers who were already sceptical about approaching. But that's their problem. I highly respect men who go after what they want in life.

Needless to say that dude was walking on eggshells all along. He leaves the scene ,comes back and there we go again; his hot wife getting approached. Some will.say it's good to protect your wife like this, some will say it's a losing battle anyway.

I would still continue doing what you do, but try to be more subtle . Observe the situation better, and than go in out, stick and move style.
 

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I had a ton on my mind with my company announcing last week that they are reducing headcount and seeing a few coworkers I was with get let go.
A lack of job security would also be an issue in approaching, attracting, and seducing. Men's SMV is far more affected by job loss. I hope you can find a better employment situation soon so that it doesn't affect your seducing.
 

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You dont get good women at a pool party anyway, especially the DJ hosted ones. Lots of uglies and fat women go to those.
 

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Well done Jesse! It's all a learning curve. You have learnt from this. That has to be good right.

How were you supposed to know it was his wife!! I would of said look i'm sorry...i did'nt know. From a sexual evolutionarily stance he see's you as a mate poacher. He is acting VIOLENT because he see's you as a threat. It really piques my curiosity how in a world full of laws, that will send a man to prison for violence, men still seem to mate guard with violence.

Always do a ring check.....



"Sorry buddy, Didn't see a/the ring. Better get a bigger diamond so there's no mistaking...."

 

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You dont get good women at a pool party anyway, especially the DJ hosted ones. Lots of uglies and fat women go to those.
Pool parties are a bigger deal in inland cities. I'm sure there are some in Miami, but why have a pool party in Miami as a commercial place when the ocean is nearby?

The Dallas pool parties I am familiar with are sausage fests as I explained above.
 

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Always do a ring check.....



"Sorry buddy, Didn't see a/the ring. Better get a bigger diamond so there's no mistaking...."

That's not a guarantee. One time I was at a checkout of a grocery store, and the cashier had a ring on her marriage finger. I mention it, and she goes "I'm not married, I just like wearing rings on that finger." I then respond "yeah, yeah, you're just doing it to prevent guys from hitting on you". She laughed and said "it's just a finger". It wasn't a wedding looking ring. That's why I mentioned it. So I think that's the tell tale sign. If a woman is wearing a ring on the finger that doesn't look like a wedding ring, she probably isn't married.
 
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For quite a while, I have been hyping up the value of daygame and how I rather do that than be "one of the guys" playing golf and chugging beer over the weekends. Well, I finally had a weekend where that got tested.

After what was a fun as heck Saturday, I get hit up by my wing to daygame on Sunday. I had a ton on my mind with my company announcing last week that they are reducing headcount and seeing a few coworkers I was with get let go. Couple that in with some stress of medical appointments and feeling drained from everything (including a wild Saturday), I was not at my best. Still, I got a nice workout in and headed out to daygame with my boy.

I arrive at a spot we love to go to and notice immediately how much quality there was. For some reason, I froze up and didn't really approach. I just listened to music and got a bottle of water because it was over 90 degrees and I was exhausted. Get in line at the local 711 and noticed that the clerk was pissed off at everyone because of how a herd had formed instead of a line. Starts yelling at me for not listening to her and then I say screw it, just get to where she needs to me to so I can pay for the freaking water. Get in and it was a drink much needed!

Finally, my wing showed up and we took a lap around. My wing was busier than usual, probably doing a few approaches as I stood by. I missed a couple of opportunities that my wing capitalized on instead. I was feeling it, dammit Pinkman, do the freaking approach already. I approach a woman who was waiting for a ride and it didn't go all that well, she was nice but the ride was actually her family including a mom in the passenger seat that gave me the old stink eye.

We keep going and I approach a Latin girl sitting down. We chatted for a solid minute but then she tells me she flies back to NYC tomorrow. I could have done more with it but being that I am still somewhat new, I say screw it. I could have gone for the close but then didn't.

I approach another woman standing around on her phone with cute reading glasses but she is the typical Miami Argentinian, stuck up and gives me the typical Latina rejection where they smile at you and say "thank you" or "have a nice day". What's weird is that she was actually a natural redhead with freckles with a tall and skinny body.

Things were going somewhat alright and the women had been nice. Then I approach this one blonde with sunglasses, going direct as I do. So far, it is my best approach of the entire day and she is receptive to everything, even laughing at what I say. She was Russian. I walk with her and everything but then notice as I am walking, an old guy gets right between us. I look confused on what is happening until he turns to me and says "that's my wife!" with an angry scowl on my face and a group of people around us.

I've rarely had this happen so I say "sir, I am sorry for that" and walk away but then he walks me down and says "how sleazy!". Guy shouts at me as a handful of people look on and my day is already rough as is. I look back and turn around as this dude is raging, shame had overcome me.

So I breathe and pause, make eye contact and stare at the man who is now following me. "I should report you to the police!" he looks at me, angrily pointing his finger as I had turned around. I say in a calm tone "when you said she was your wife, I apologized, what more do you want me to do?". The dude angrily responds saying "not talk to women you don't know", loudly. Now other people are looking on, including a group of black dudes who are laughing hysterically and I am afraid that I have security called on me.

My wing comes over and backs me up, says to the guy "hey buddy, it was a mistake". The guy is still angry and raging mad at me but he walks away, still staring at me angrily. I stare in bewildered amusement but then try to process what had happened. I was do direct, so straightforward, and showed clear intent that I was into this woman but she never told me she was married. It shows me a new appreciation for women that are married now and let you know ASAP. My wing tells me "yeah dude, I had thought of approaching her earlier but she was with him but I saw her all into you and even grabbing your shoulder so I decided not to intervene". I was as confused as him.

The outcome?

Not fun at all, obviously. First experience I have had after doing daygame for months which was just awful. However, as bad as it would have been, your boy is not going to play Golf on weekends or chug beers with normies. Jesse Pinkman games on! So much to learn though, I could have been more selective in approaching here.

Rough weekend though!
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Always do a ring check.....



"Sorry buddy, Didn't see a/the ring. Better get a bigger diamond so there's no mistaking...."

Floridians are the most toxic about guns ("stand you ground"), so I would not go out of my way to get some stranger angry. :rolleyes:
 
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