"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Field report: It's easy when they like you

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Few weeks ago I matched with a Bi sexual girl on tinder.

She was tall and slim with a decent looking body, kinda small boobs but I can deal with that. We chatted a little and she was responsive and flirty, we talked about her being bi sexual and I asked legit questions on how she does with women on tinder.
Easy conversation so I invited her to hang out. She agreed


We went for food and a walk (lame I know). Things are still closed so date options are limited. It went well and in person we had a great time and openly flirted and talked about sex/dating. She seemed down to have a threesome with another girl so I will keep this idea open going forward.

Ended date making out in my car.

We set up the second date a week later. She came to my place, we talked for a while, ate pizza and had a drink.
Then we made out on the couch and I had her on top of me on the stripping off her clothes...can confirm her boobs were bigger and nicer than expect.

Carried her to my bed and got the rest of her clothes off. Started slow (it had been a few months lol) but she mentioned at the end "****! you really pull that out of the bag".

She chilled for a while and just as I was about to mention wrapping things up she said she better leave because of work the next day.

We are meeting again Friday, its been effortless so far. She can be in her "masculine" because she has 6 brothers, but keeping my attitude and frame correct she quickly goes giggly and girly to her own surprise.


Moral of the story; Its easy when they like you. So keep circulating and forget girls who make it overly difficult to get together.

As CCW says "you're either in or out"
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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bat soup

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Few weeks ago I matched with a Bi sexual girl on tinder.

She was tall and slim with a decent looking body, kinda small boobs but I can deal with that. We chatted a little and she was responsive and flirty, we talked about her being bi sexual and I asked legit questions on how she does with women on tinder.
Easy conversation so I invited her to hang out. She agreed


We went for food and a walk (lame I know). Things are still closed so date options are limited. It went well and in person we had a great time and openly flirted and talked about sex/dating. She seemed down to have a threesome with another girl so I will keep this idea open going forward.

Ended date making out in my car.

We set up the second date a week later. She came to my place, we talked for a while, ate pizza and had a drink.
Then we made out on the couch and I had her on top of me on the stripping off her clothes...can confirm her boobs were bigger and nicer than expect.

Carried her to my bed and got the rest of her clothes off. Started slow (it had been a few months lol) but she mentioned at the end "****! you really pull that out of the bag".

She chilled for a while and just as I was about to mention wrapping things up she said she better leave because of work the next day.

We are meeting again Friday, its been effortless so far. She can be in her "masculine" because she has 6 brothers, but keeping my attitude and frame correct she quickly goes giggly and girly to her own surprise.


Moral of the story; Its easy when they like you. So keep circulating and forget girls who make it overly difficult to get together.

As CCW says "you're either in or out"
I agree. When a woman is deliberately making things difficult, don't waste your time.
 

BillyPilgrim

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Lol you should ask this girl if men or women are easier to date
 

RBK

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Because women have no clue how to flirt with eachother and manage a relationship. Bi girls always have trainwrecks of relationships with another girl.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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