blind_one
Master Don Juan
Oh my god, how did that happen? I mean wtfSolomon said:I went from that to being foreveralone
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Field Report (FR): Friday night fishing with Solomon = E
- Thread starter Bilogomja
- Start date
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
iqqi
Master Don Juan
Solomon, everyone goes through periods of solitude. Use it as a time to reflect, then get back out there being social after you have used that down time to grow.
Also, you are four years older. You might not have the same drive to be butterflying around the room like that anymore. Nothing wrong with slowing down a bit. Quality over quantity, my friend.
Also, you are four years older. You might not have the same drive to be butterflying around the room like that anymore. Nothing wrong with slowing down a bit. Quality over quantity, my friend.
Young Juan
Senior Don Juan
Come on Solo. Once a Jedi, always a Jedi. The most amazing thing in the world is to have it all, lose it, AND THEN get it all back again!
Why?
Anyone can conquer the world, only few can conquer defeat.
Why?
Anyone can conquer the world, only few can conquer defeat.